Do you want to gather your friends together for Thanksgiving? Hosting a Friendsgiving is a great way to kick off the holiday season. If you are searching for ideas to make Friendsgiving, fun, cozy, and stress-free, consider the following tips.
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Planning & Setup
- Pick a Date: The weekend before or after Thanksgiving is usually best so people can still do family gatherings. Or if everyone is available, host on Thanksgiving.
- Send Invites: Use group texts, email, or free online invites. Be clear about the time, theme, and what to bring.
- Potluck Style: You do not need to cook everything yourself. Ask each guest bring a dish to pass helps save time and money. Ask guests to sign up for appetizers, sides, desserts, and drinks. Use your group chat to organize your food sign-up. You do not want to end up with five green bean casseroles.
Food & Drinks
- Turkey: Provide the turkey. Cook the turkey yourself to save money. Also consider adding a small ham to your menu to provide a choice of meats.
- Signature Dish: You provide one standout item For example, make homemade stuffing or mac & cheese.
- Dessert Station: Set up a pie bar with whipped cream, ice cream, and toppings.
Atmosphere
- Cozy Decorations: String lights, add candles, pumpkins, and a fall-colored table runner to set the theme.
- Music Playlist: Soft background music sets the vibe.
- Extra Seating: If needed, borrow folding chairs, add floor cushions or blankets for a casual feel.
Fun & Connection
- Gratitude Activity: Ask everyone to share something they are thankful for today. Or write notes of gratitude to put in a “thankful jar.” Pull out the notes and read them aloud.
- Photo Corner: Set up a fall-themed backdrop with props. Use mini pumpkins, inflatables, flannels, silly hats, or signs.
- Games: After dinner, play board games, card games, or do a trivia round with Thanksgiving or “Friends” sitcom themes.
Remember to have fun! Everything does not have to be perfect. Enjoy the day with your friends.