Do you want to host a Christmas dinner this year? Planning a Christmas dinner party can be so much fun. The planning process can also be a little overwhelming if you are not sure where to start! If you are searching for inspiration, check out the following festive and stress-reducing guide. Each step will help you throw a magical and memorable Christmas dinner party.
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1. Set a Date & Send Invites Early
- Choose a date that works for most people (usually weekends in December are best).
- Send invitations 2–3 weeks ahead. Depending on your guest list, you can send paper, digital, or even a fun video invite! Or use a combination, using the one the works the best for each guest.
- Include RSVP information. You will need an approximate head count to plan your dinner party.
- Add dress code information. Do you plan to host a casual and festive dinner? Or do you want a traditional formal one? Or perhaps, host a fun dinner with ugly Christmas sweaters as a requirement.
2. Plan Your Menu
- Start with a theme. For example, pick a classic Christmas dinner menu with all the traditional fixings. Or create a cozy comfort pot-luck style food menu. Pot-lucks help reduce costs and provide a variety of dishes.
- Include appetizers, main dishes, sides, and desserts.
- Offer a mix of traditional favorites and something new. Hosting a Christmas dinner is the perfect time to try a new recipe.
3. Sample Menu Ideas
- Appetizer: Baked brie with cranberry chutney, deviled eggs, festive holiday salad, or fruit.
- Main: Roast turkey or glazed ham.
- Sides: Garlic mashed potatoes, stuffing, green bean casserole, and homemade dinner rolls.
- Dessert: Yule Log cake, chocolate fudge, pie, Christmas cookies, or peppermint bark.
4. Drinks Station
- Create a DIY hot cocoa or mulled wine station.
- Offer festive mocktails, wine, and maybe a signature cocktail like a “Holly Jolly Punch.”
- Don’t forget water, tea, and soda for non-drinkers and kids.
5. Set the Scene with Decorations
- Use string lights, candles, greenery, and ornaments to create a festive atmosphere.
- Set up a beautiful table setting with chargers, cloth napkins, and name cards adds elegance.
- Consider a theme: rustic lodge, winter wonderland, red & gold, or vintage Christmas.
6. Make a Festive Playlist
- Curate a Christmas playlist to play in the background—mix classics with upbeat tunes.
- Spotify and YouTube have great ready-to-go Christmas music playlists.
7. Plan a Fun Activity or Two
- White Elephant or Secret Santa gift exchange
- Christmas trivia, charades, or Pictionary
8. Set Up a Photo Spot
- Use a blank wall or corner with string lights, a festive backdrop, or even a small tree.
- Add props like Santa hats, reindeer antlers, or signs like “Naughty” and “Nice.”
- Set up a social media page or group so your guests can add photos for everyone to view.
9. Prep Ahead
- Cook and bake what you can a day or two early.
- Set the table the night before your Christmas dinner.
- Have a plan for coat storage and an area for bags/gifts.
- Set up your photo booth area.
- Create your drink station spot.
10. Keep It Cozy and Personal
- Light a scented candle or simmer some potpourri on the stove (cinnamon, cloves, orange peel).
- Write a short toast or thank-you to your guests—it adds a warm, personal touch.
- If a toast is not right for you and your guests, pray before your meal. A Christmas dinner is a perfect time to give thanks for the meal and guests.
Relax and enjoy your time with friends and family. Take lots of photos.
Merry Christmas!